by focusmediation | Aug 5, 2014 | Family, Mediation, Separation
When people are hurt, they often like to hurt back. An eye for and eye, a tooth for a tooth and all that. If s/he left me to go off with that bastard/bitch, they must suffer for it. They will suffer, I’ll make sure of it, even if I lose out too, it will be worth...
by focusmediation | Jul 25, 2014 | Family, Mediation, Separation
Mediators and lawyers have their own role to play in helping you to reach decisions following on from your separation. Most of the hard work is done by you both during the mediation sessions. The two of you will discuss the issues that need to be resolved, with the...
by focusmediation | Jul 9, 2014 | Family
Parenting guru Penelope Leach’s recent claim that after parents split, no child under four can spend even one night away from their primary carer – usually their mother without the risk of lasting damage – has caused a storm of controversy in family law. Her...
by focusmediation | Jul 3, 2014 | Family, Mediation, Separation
Many Divorces are based on lies, but you can’t defend them. Countless times it turns out in mediation that two people, who experienced the same event, interpreted it totally differently. Each understood what was happening in their own way, then afterwards,...
by focusmediation | Jun 18, 2014 | Family, Mediation, Separation
Understanding where you are on the journey makes finding your way easier Usually, one half of the couple initiates the split. They may well have been thinking about the future of the relationship for some time, usually not saying anything to their partner, in case...
