by focusmediation | Aug 5, 2014 | Family, Mediation, Separation
When people are hurt, they often like to hurt back. An eye for and eye, a tooth for a tooth and all that. If s/he left me to go off with that bastard/bitch, they must suffer for it. They will suffer, I’ll make sure of it, even if I lose out too, it will be worth...
by focusmediation | Jul 25, 2014 | Family, Mediation, Separation
Mediators and lawyers have their own role to play in helping you to reach decisions following on from your separation. Most of the hard work is done by you both during the mediation sessions. The two of you will discuss the issues that need to be resolved, with the...
by focusmediation | Jul 17, 2014 | Mediation
The countless aeons of history that have gone before us are full of fighting and killing, full of domination and oppression, full of taking over and wiping out, conversion, subjection and vanquishing, the growth and decline of empires and peoples. The strong overcome;...
by focusmediation | Jul 9, 2014 | Family
Parenting guru Penelope Leach’s recent claim that after parents split, no child under four can spend even one night away from their primary carer – usually their mother without the risk of lasting damage – has caused a storm of controversy in family law. Her...
by focusmediation | Jul 3, 2014 | Family, Mediation, Separation
Many Divorces are based on lies, but you can’t defend them. Countless times it turns out in mediation that two people, who experienced the same event, interpreted it totally differently. Each understood what was happening in their own way, then afterwards,...