Conflict Junkies

People addicted to conflict – what does it mean? Who are they? Sometimes, perhaps often, solving intractable problems is so difficult, we can’t. We don’t want to try. So the easy answer is to blame someone else and create a distraction. That...

What do Mediators do?

One of the main objectives in mediation is to give people insights. Insights that help them understand the effect of their actions and of their style of communication on their families. This responsibility does not stop with divorce – where there are children it...

The Basket of Truth

The basket is asymmetrical and looks different from every angle. Each observer is convinced by the truth of their view. Imagine the basket is the physical embodiment of the truth. We believe our recollection of the truth is right, because we saw and experienced it and...